The promise of all of the luxuries of the world, regular financial support might seem like a scam already. But it’s a reality for many sugar babies who know how to pick a right sugar daddy and avoid scammers online. Our guide is here to help you learn how to be a successful sugar baby and earn money instead of losing it to popular sugar daddy scams. Read on!
How to Tell If a Sugar Daddy is Real?
Most sugar daddies are very private when they create their profiles, even on trustworthy websites. But it doesn’t mean that there are no ways to check if they are real. Here are a few signs that can help you to distinguish a fake sugar daddy from a legit one:
- A real sugar daddy will have some information and photos. Men who earn big money don’t have a lot of time to spare so they make profiles that make it super easy to meet the most compatible matches. But some SDs want high privacy and won’t have a lot of info, but they won’t mind sending photos when you ask for some.
- If there is a verification, they will be verified. If you can be more trustworthy, why not? It’s often very simple, and real SDs understand that SBs want to be sure that the person they are meeting is not a scammer.
- A legit SD won’t offer $5,000 for your pics. If it’s too good to be true, it is. Some SBs do get a lot if they meet a honey daddy, but it also comes with quite a lot of work from their end too.
- Rich men looking for an SB will tell you exactly what they want. and in most cases they are open for negotiation. Time is money, and SDs often have a very clear offer, expectations, and are open to talking things over. They often have a business-like approach to the search for a perfect SB.
- Real SDs are very respectful and are not pushing you to take rushed decisions. If an SD is rushing to meet or asks you uncomfortable things in a weird or rude manner, he is not a real SD. Real SDs don’t want the relationship to feel transactional and want you to enjoy it too, as this way the experience is better.
- Legitimate SDs are never asking for money. A wealthy guy won’t ever ask you for money. You should be the only one getting that buck.
Telling a fake SD from a legit one is actually not that hard, but you need to be cautious. Always pay attention to the details that your potential SD shares and run if you notice scam red flags.
Sugar Daddy Scam
Modern scammers can really get very creative when it comes to luring their victims into scam traps. No wonder that the romance scam loss rates are so huge each year. In 2023, the number reached $1.14 billion! But when you know about the popular schemes, you can see the signs of them early and keep your money in your pocket; that’s why we want to tell you about each of them.
Sugar Daddy Cash App Scam
That’s a common sugar daddy scam that is based on fake cash app screenshots. But SBs don’t just get them. A scam SD picks a victim and spends some time grooming them and gaining their trust. And after some time they offer to send some money to their cash app. Sometimes they just say they accidentally sent more and ask you to send the difference to their app or say that they want you to pay for something you both will use on the date. Scammers are really creative these days.
But the reality is that the money never comes to your Cash App account and a screenshot your “SD” sends is a fake. If you’re not attentive enough, you might send your hard-earned money to a scammer. Also, they might send you $1.00 or $10.00, claiming that they sent $100 or $1,000 and want you to send a part of it back or just fool you before the intimacy. It’s trickier as you might miss the dot and as you get the notification, you’ll be sure that everything is fine.
PayPal Sugar Daddy Scam
That’s another scam scheme that fake SDs use, as many SBs use PayPal to get their allowance of PPM. It’s similar to a Cash App scam, but it might have some spins like:
- A scammer SD might ask you to pay a clearance fee to a PayPal account so that you can get access to a certain (usually big) sum of money. And as the fee is usually $10 or $15, compared to $1,000+ promised, many naive SBs pay that and lose money.
- You might get a real screenshot of a PayPal transfer but while the transaction is pending. It means that it can be withdrawn and you get nothing to your PayPal account.
As with the Cash App scam, you need to always check your account and don’t do anything before you are sure that your money is secured. Also, note that in most cases your SD will rush you to do something so that you don’t notice the problem.
Mobile Deposit Sugar Daddy Scam
And last but not least, the scam scheme of sugar daddies that we want to talk about is the mobile deposit scam. It’s a check deposit where an SD claims to send you a certain sum and sends a virtual check that you can cash out. But sure thing, you can’t because it’s fake. An SD can send you it on a date, so that you think everything is okay and go on with intimacy, but you’ll never receive the money. Or another version is that an SD tells you to donate 10% from a $1,000+ check to a charity he picked (which is fake). If you do, you’ll end up paying from your own wallet to a scammer.
How to Avoid Sugar Daddy Scam?
Taking your safety seriously is a must in sugar dating. And it’s the only way to actually avoid sugar daddy scams. You need to see sugar dating as a job and not through pink-coloured glasses. Here are some more tips that will help:
- Don’t use dodgy sites. A place you sign up to as a sugar baby should be reputable and also niche. Don’t waste your time on regular dating sites, but use trustworthy sugar daddy dating platforms that offer profile verification.
- Create a sugar baby persona. An SD doesn’t need to know your real name, exact location, or any personal info. You should create a separate persona for sugar dating to have maximum privacy, but it’s also a psychological trick to feel more emotionally detached from the person and not catch feelings.
- Never send money to your SD. That’s a golden rule that should NOT be changed under any circumstances. Never send any money to a link or back to your SD, especially if you’ve never met IRL.
- Don’t click on any links. Legit SDs don’t send any links you need to sign up to, send your info, etc. Ignore them and don’t share any info.
- Pay attention to communication red flags. If an SD’s English is really poor, or his story doesn’t add up, that’s not a person you’d chat with or meet with. If you notice anything you are questioning or think is off-putting, just stop communication. Remember you don’t owe any explanations.
- Agree to meet only in public places. Some scammers can be dangerous, and you should always meet in public places for the first few meetings. At least one of your friends should always know where you are.
- Never proceed with anything intimate before you get your PPM or allowance. Some sugar daddy wannabes are not scammers in traditional form but are salt daddies, aka broke daddies. They can’t afford an SB and often try to put off paying till the end of the date and “forget.” After that you’ll never see them again.
Make your safety and privacy a top priority and trust your gut. If you feel like there is something not right with an SD, get yourself out of the conversation or date immediately.
Conclusion
Being a sugar baby can be a cool experience that brings you the financial support you want or need. But you should always be careful that your desire to get money doesn’t cloud your judgment or blur your caution to scam red flags. Your safety should always be your priority if you want to have a positive experience with this type of dating.